Silent Night: Understanding Loneliness During the Holidays

 

Imagine sitting alone at the dinner table week after week, month after month, and even during celebrations like Ramadan, Diwali, Easter, Christmas, and Yom Kippur.

As the festive season rolls around, many of us are caught up in the delightful chaos of picking up last-minute gifts and gathering the ingredients for a hearty Christmas dinner. The stack of Christmas cards waiting to be written out seems to grow taller by the day. But picture for a moment what it would be like if you had no one to give gifts to, received no cards in return, and had nobody to cook for you, nor anyone to prepare a meal for. Unfortunately, this stark reality is the experience of many of our participants.

Loneliness isn’t just a fleeting emotion for some people; it is a daily experience, and it can have profound effects on both mental and physical health. Studies have linked chronic loneliness to an increased risk of depression, anxiety, cardiovascular diseases, and even premature death. Moreover, loneliness can impair cognitive function, weaken the immune system, and exacerbate health conditions.

Loneliness can be challenging, but it’s not invincible. That’s why Globe Community Project is committed to our mission of putting compassion into action. We’re not just building local connections and cohesion; we’re fostering a sense of hope and inspiration, bringing a brighter future to our community.

We achieve this through data-driven approaches to identifying loneliness hotspots, reaching out to isolated individuals, and organising regular courses and workshops, including yoga, mindfulness, and language and communication skills. These initiatives provide a warm, positive, and supportive environment that equips people with the tools to combat loneliness and fosters a strong sense of belonging. We also use our platforms to raise awareness about the silent epidemic of loneliness affecting our community in Tower Hamlets.


Meet Salim

Salim talking about his important book

Salim struggles with his mental health, managing both bipolar disorder and OCD. When he first arrived on the course, he was shy and reserved, kept his coat on, and would say little, occasionally raising his hand in response to a question. As the sessions progressed, his confidence grew, and he came out of his shell. He now participates actively in group exercises, initiates conversations with the facilitator and other participants, and often smiles. He is thoughtful, insightful, and engaged with the course material.

During a session where participants tell a story about themselves, he opened up about a very important book that he turns to when feeling depressed. After talking about the book, he said, “I've never shared this with anyone, not even my wife. You are family, and the course has helped to stabilise my bipolar”

We want to extend our heartfelt gratitude to Salim for sharing his inspiring story with us. His experience highlights the importance of community support and the positive impact our course can have on individuals. We are committed to transforming loneliness into a connection by assisting many more individuals like Salim through our Wellbeing for Over 60s course. This course is designed to enhance the quality of life for seniors by promoting mental and physical wellbeing.


Can you help further our reach?

Would you like to join us for Feast for Friendship? Raise money for refugee women while building your own connections through food and friendship.

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